Recently, I moved from New York to a smaller city, where I have a car and more control over my schedule—which means fewer available excuses. I also have a friend who has redefined the word "late" (she has a personal record of three hours) and has put me on the other side of the fence. I've made some progress. And as they say on TV, now so can you! Before you give up and move to Peru, try some of these strategies for making yourself more punctual:
- The first step is acceptance. Admit you have a problem and enlist help.
- Surround yourself with clocks (not just the one on your cell phone).
- Bring something to read or occupy you, so if you arrive early, you don't feel like you're "wasting time."
- Give yourself a handicap. If you're a bad estimator, double the time you think it will take to get there.
- If you've never been where you're going, look up directions beforehand (not at the time you're supposed to be walking out the door).
- Before you accept invitations for engagements, ask yourself if you really can, or want to, attend. If you're hesitant, perhaps it's better to politely decline than rudely arrive late.
- Don't try to do too much. Keep a detailed schedule and don't be distracted by tasks not on it.
- Fine yourself a dollar (to your piggy bank) for every minute you're late.
- Hypnosis. Hey, it can't hurt, right?
- Calmly let the person know you're irritated.
- Impose some kind of consequence, playfully at first. For example, if your friend is late for a coffee date, she buys.
- Give her a taste of her own medicine. On your next meeting, show up as late as she was the last time.
Being tardy can involve setbacks like illness, IBS, and embarrassing moments. Work on minimizing their impact.
- Jon
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